Marriage and Divorce: When Are Differences Irreconcilable?
CNN recently reported that divorce has a permanently bad affect on your mental and physical health. In my case, NOT getting a divorce would have been bad for my mental, and his physical, health. Sometimes we just blow it. Maybe we were too young to get married, we looked for love in the wrong place, or we didn’t know when to just say, “No!” Then, we come to our senses and divorce is the answer.
Having said that, divorce sucks no matter what. The majority of divorced people have regrets. They are sorry they threw in the towel and wish they’d tried harder. We used to be forced to try harder because it was legally difficult to get a divorce. Now, in most states, citing “irreconcilable differences” is enough, at least as far as the judge is concerned. Have you ever wondered what differences are so irreconcilable that, for example, the 20-year